Hey y'all! It’s Makenzie, here to talk about something a lot of my clients - and myself - struggle with...imposter syndrome, especially when it comes to posting on social media. We all have those moments of doubt, but I'm here to remind you that those feelings are completely normal and manageable. Whether you’re new to social media or just need a healthy reminder that YOU'VE GOT THIS, I've got some reassuring mantras and tips to help you push past the doubts.
Why You Feel That Way
Imposter syndrome is a common feeling, especially when it comes to posting on social media. It’s that nagging voice in your head that says you’re not good enough, that others are more knowledgeable or creative, and that your posts won’t measure up.
This fear often stems from comparing ourselves to others and the high standards we see on social media. It can be paralyzing, making us second-guess every post and hesitate to share our thoughts and ideas.
Why You Shouldn't Feel That Way
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It’s Not as Big as You Think The truth is, most people are focused on their own lives and aren’t scrutinizing your posts as closely as you think. We tend to magnify our perceived flaws and failures in our minds, but in reality, they’re much less significant to others.
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People Appreciate Authenticity Authenticity is highly valued on social media. People connect with genuine, real-life experiences and appreciate content that feels honest and relatable. When you share your true self, you’re more likely to build a loyal and engaged audience.
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It’s Easy to Learn as You Go No one starts as an expert. Social media is a constantly evolving landscape, and everyone is learning along the way. The best way to improve is by doing. Each post is an opportunity to learn and grow. Don’t be afraid to start small and build your skills over time.
Mantras to Help You Escape Imposter Syndrome
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"Progress Over Perfection" Remember that it’s better to post something that’s not perfect than to not post at all. Each piece of content is a step forward in your journey. Strive for progress, not perfection.
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"Everyone Starts Somewhere" Even the most successful content creators started with zero followers. Your favorite influencers have also faced moments of doubt. The key is to keep going and keep improving.
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"Authenticity Attracts" People are drawn to real, honest content. Be yourself and let your unique voice shine through. Your authenticity is your biggest asset.
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"Done is Better Than Perfect" It’s easy to get caught up in making everything perfect, but this can lead to procrastination. Focus on completing and sharing your content rather than endlessly tweaking it.
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"You Have Value to Offer" Trust that your experiences and knowledge are valuable. Your perspective is unique, and there’s an audience out there who will benefit from what you share.
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"Learn and Grow" Social media is a learning process. Embrace the journey, and remember that every post is an opportunity to learn something new. Don’t be afraid to make mistakes—they’re part of the growth process.
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"Comparison is the Thief of Joy" Avoid comparing yourself to others. Everyone’s journey is different, and social media often shows only the highlight reel. There is no issue with using other pages for inspiration, but do not waste your time trying to replicate others. They are not you, and you are not them. Our individuality is what makes us stand out! Focus on your own progress and celebrate your achievements.
Don't Think, Just Do! (But Think a Little Bit and Be Intentional)
When it comes to posting on social media, action is key. Don’t overthink every detail to the point of paralysis. As long as your posts are educational, engaging, or entertaining, and do not hurt or offend anyone, you’re on the right track. Here are a few tips to help you get started:
- Educational Posts: Share tips, how-tos, and informative content that provides value to your audience.
- Engaging Posts: Ask questions, run polls, and encourage interaction to build a community.
- Entertaining Posts: Share behind-the-scenes content, funny moments, and relatable stories to make your audience smile.
Remember, it’s okay to think a little bit and be intentional with your content. Plan your posts to align with your goals, but don’t let overthinking hold you back. The more you post, the more comfortable and confident you’ll become.
Conclusion
Imposter syndrome is a hurdle, but it’s one you can overcome. By understanding why you feel this way and using reassuring mantras to support your confidence, you can push past the doubts and share your unique voice with the world. Don’t strive for perfection; strive for authenticity and continuous improvement.
You’ve got this!
Peace and love,
Mak :)